What’s Wrong with My Libido After Kids - Part 2

In this episode of the Sex After Kids podcast we continue our series exploring what factors impact libido and our desire and drive to have sex and connect with our partner after kids. In part 2 we explore the emotional dynamics at play including: the importance of communication, equitable division of labor, and modeling healthy intimacy for children. Practical advice, including resources like 'Fair Play,' and reflections on trauma, shame, and societal expectations round out the conversation. The episode encourages listeners to engage in dialogue and reflect on their personal experiences.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:29 Understanding the Brick Wall
01:48 Exploring Emotional Shifts
03:01 Gender Scripts and Relationship Dynamics
05:37 Impact of Parenting on Intimacy
11:19 Emotional and Hormonal Interplay
13:56 Body Image and Self-Perception
16:09 The Importance of Healthy Intimacy
16:51 Navigating Postpartum Sexual Concerns
18:19 Addressing Emotional Bricks in Relationships
21:30 The Impact of Gender Scripts on Relationships
25:37 Balancing Chores and Emotional Labor
27:22 Cultural Narratives and Sexual Shame
28:42 Understanding Trauma and Sexual Boundaries
30:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts