Us Against the Problem

This episode of the Sex After Kids podcast delves into common challenges couples face in their sex lives after having children, focusing on the detrimental effects of the blame game and the significance of teamwork in overcoming creating a new sex life together. Sex is a team sport - let's talk about how to support each other to get to pleasure town.

00:32 The Biggest Mistake in Post-Kids Sex Life 0
0:50 Blaming Yourself or Your Partner
03:41 Common Thoughts and Misconceptions
05:07 Quit the Magical Thinking
05:40 Taking Action and Working Together
06:51 Building Connection Through Challenges
07:26 The Growing Disconnection in Relationships
08:05 The Blame Game: Self vs. Partner
08:57 Problematizing Libidos and Gender Scripts
10:31 Engaging Partners in the Solution
11:46 The Power of Working Together
13:27 Creating Magic Together
14:00 Final Thoughts and Call to Action