The Sex After Kids
Reset Roadmap

Book a FREE 30 min call where I'll teach you how to plan a sex date you can actually get excited about even when you don’t have a lot of time or energy (in time for valentines day).

You are invited to book a FREE Call with me

I’m hosting 30 free sessions with parents who are fighting miss matched libidos after kids and who want to schedule a sex date that doesn’t suck.

Everyone tells you to that after kids you need to schedule sex if you want it to happen but a busy schedule and tired parents can make that an uphill battle and when you do it it often falls flat.

Right now you might be :

  • nervous to schedule a sex date cause you are worried your libido wont’ show up and you’ll feel guilty or pressured.

  • worried that the your sex date will fall flat like last time and give you one more thing to avoid talking about.

  • avoiding scheduling sex cause if it’s not spontaneous and doesn’t come from a “I want to rip your clothes off” desire - then it’s not sexy.

During your Reset Roadmap Call we will shift your perspective on what a great sex date is, and give you the tools to plan a party your libido wants to show up to - with bells on.


Don’t pin your hopes on an amazing v-day date - with just 30 minutes of planning we can make it a great one.

On the call we’ll cover..

#1 What is Naked Sexy Fun Times

Let’s talk about why scheduling sex sucks and how a shift in perspective can get you naked and having fun sexy times together every time.

#2 Mastering the Transition

Getting out of busy parent mode and into sexy time can be challenging. We’ll cover my three easy strategies for getting landed and connected in under 15 minutes so you can get ready for liftoff.

#3 The Art of Hosting

Let’s plan a party your libido wants to come to. No more praying you’ll be “in the mood” at a set date and time and no more showing up to a sex date at 11 pm exhausted after the bedtime battle. We’ll develop your prelaunch checklist that a zombie could use to get liftoff.

“Our naked sexy fun times was a success.
It really made our intentions clear (connecting, relaxing with each other and having a positive experience). We went to bed late, but grateful and happy! We appreciate Sofia’s easy to follow tips and strategies to help rekindle the spark and prioritizing our intimacy.” M-F. M Naked Sexy Fun Times Workshop

Why am I hosting these free calls?

I’m working on a new program to help busy parents get back into the saddle of their sex life after kids. I know what my bedroom has been like since three kids - but in order to be as helpful as possible to as many couples as I can, I need to get inside your bedroom too ( not literally of course) and learn more about what’s really holding you back from the sex you want.

I want to be clear that there is NO obligation to work with me if you book one of these calls and you are NOT wasting my time if you’re not ready to work with me. I want to help you understand your biggest hurdle and give you some concrete steps you can take on your own to make a change.

>> Click here to book your call!

Hey there, I am Sofia

I am your totally TMI bestie who has been giving sex advice since high school. I am a certified sex coach and educator with over 10 years experience teaching adults, teens and tots about sex, pleasure, consent and relationships.

I am a mama and step mama living in a neurospicy household and a blended family just trying to keep my libido alive in this busy world while parenting three kiddos. I spent my twenties at war with my vagina and searching for the grand orgasm. Along the way I found out that the keys to better sex are the keys to a better life and that listening to my V(ahem that’s code for vagina) made a happier Me. 

I’m excited to see you here at the Happy V. Come find us on Insta, I’m always up for a DM (no dick picks please haha).